BE CALM ABOUT IT

It seems like the word and the act “sex” is always a bone of contention in many relationships and marriages. Either from disagreeing to the sex styles, frequency, time and even duration, there’s always one debate or the other between spouses. Even many relationship experts have tried to come out to use scientific research and analogies to back up different claims. Many relationships too have been hit by this “sex” topic, thus leading me to the question “Should sex be important before marriage in a relationship?.” It is more of a question to you my readers so as to know your view, but I will try to run through a few answers from an objective viewpoint. Sex in a relationship before one gets married can be very essential in different ways. It will help you to know a lot about your partner’s sexual life – their fetish, their duration, their performance level and so on. This knowledge can be of great importance to some. Sex sometimes also helps to help make some relationship more beautiful. Most guys get tired after taking you on multiple dates and all they get is just Talking and talking. The relationship might get boring. Sex in a relationship doesn’t guarantee love or marriage. Because you keep having sex daily with someone doesn’t mean they will marry you for it. Love and sex are two different words and must never be mistaken for each other. Sex can also never be used as a weapon to keep a spouse. Your spouse might just like you for the sex and that’s all. But when they think marriage they wouldn’t think of you. So “Should sex be important before marriage in a relationship?” Should it be narrowed down to your relationship? Look at your relationship right now and ask yourself can sex save it? Can it make it better? Can it make us get married? Let your answer determine your actions. But if this is just you having fun and satisfying your urge, well then, you already have your answers too. Also when it comes to sex, we all know that it’s advisable to wait till you are married. I am sorry if I am going spiritual but that is another important option I follow. Before having sex, you are meant to know if your partner is actually your divine partner. God has a purpose for making sex to be part of a relationship. It’s not just for fun, it also comes with respect. Having sex before marriage leads to issues such as unwanted pregnancies, AIDS, HIV, and other dangerous illnesses. It could lead to disappointment too, breaking up and also fights which are very unhealthy. Do not have sex because of your partner frequently asks for it. A no is a no if you are not ready, what will be the worst thing that can happen, he or she dumps you. Fine, move on, find someone better. When relationships are involved, sex is not a priority, it’s not the heart of the relationship, it’s not something that you put first, there are other things which makes the relationship grow and becomes blossom than having sex. Your friend having sex with his or her partner and tells you how it is, doesn’t mean you too have to start having sex, no way, do not follow that part. You should have your own mind and words of your own. Please think deeply before having sex, don’t make a mistake, there is protection as condoms and other stuffs, that is your own. I’m not going to tell you what to do and what not to do, I’m only going to tell you be happy and be careful. I am not asking you to wait, I just sharing my opinion, that’s why I want you to leave your comment down.