Keeping things in our minds and heart could hurt us all. Its our mindset.
We have issue with friends, family, people from work, our neighbors and people around us. We tend to keep quiet than talk about it. We tend not look for trouble, not to fall into the bad books of others whereby people ignore us every time. We find it too difficult to look for the exact words to say to the person we have offended. Some of us are just the easy going people and don’t want to be involved in issues that will lead to fights and quarrel. Keeping such hate over a person is not good. Its better to let it out and settle. You can shout, scream and do all of that but the quarrel is settled. Letting the other party involved is a good start. Going to them and opening your mind to them is the best ever. Going for days holding such quarrel in your heart will hurt you or disturb you, it will damage you. Some people who do not realize that they have such quarrel with someone until you tell them and the need for them to know and be aware. Its very possible because people take life easy and soft. They move on with their lives like everything is fine and you are dying of hate and malice. Life is short ooo, no one knows what could have tomorrow, be opened minded and let the party involve settle. No one wants stress and issues.
An open mind is better for each and everyone of us. Do not quarrel with the person anymore. Whatever he or she has done please go to the person and discuss. Open your mind and be free from any hurts in your heart. No matter who started the issue, it doesn’t also matter who apologizes first. A lot of people are dying everyday and they carry such things in their heart to the grave. Everything is not a joke, things should be taking seriously. Forgiveness helps one grow, it helps our spiritual life. It helps us get closer to God. It sets our hearts, souls, body free from every bad thing. Its a good way to start a new life. A life of forgiveness is a life of freedom. Right now, please go to whoever you have an issue with and settle. God is with us.