We can decide what we want to do. The force people use to get what they want is very alarming. When we say NO to somebody, they get offended and they do things that are not called for.
A lot of time, we find ourselves in a position where we just given. We get very scared of what people will do when we don’t lay down our guards for their selfish reasons. ITS A NO, people will never accept such answer. This comes to my main discussion, ITS A NO when a woman says no to a man’s sexual request. Why is it so hard for a man to accept such answer. Most men are just naturally angry. Such sexual harassment are done in the office, by their bosses, it could happen in schools too(but high schools, universities and so on). Rape is such an ongoing thing now. Men can’t hold their-selves, they are pushed to forcing the women in having sex, they can’t control it. The men feel entitled to the women. Rape is a crime, most women are scared to talk about the things they are going through.
You see family members who have the boldness to rape their own family member, they are really possessed, they are attracted by the body that they see and forget that they are family. What will you call that? A curse, temptation, what exactly? Why can’t the men close their eyes to the women, your own flesh and blood. What’s the attraction, what type of confusion is that? You claim to love someone and you can’t obey her decision to wait until a certain time to have sex. You argue and argue until thy kingdom come and what next? Rape…… The funny thing is the man doesn’t care. No fear, it’s like he feels nothing will happen to him, no one will touch him, the lady take up the case to the court and the man lies and what is the outcome? The court favors the man, bride has taken over, the story is twisted, the power is taken over by money, all evidence is thrown away and never seen again. It will take another true lawyer to prove that he is guilty. A man who thinks he can go scout free is a joker. The truth will always come out.
If we all must know, women too can force a man sexually. If the man is not accepting her advances, she can trick him to give into her advances. But she does it in a very sweet way, (deceiving the guy). A man can say no to her, if he is not attracted to her. WHY force the man to do your will? He has a choice to do it or not? In the case of being drunk, I really don’t know. What will you call it, RAPE. Both parties are drunk and they didn’t know what they were doing? If one is sober, he or she should not have sex with the other party. Avoid it. You will wake up to regretting what you have done and it may lead to something bad. A lot is happening in this world that we are leaving in.
Also, ladies, no matter how beautiful you are, watch how you dress. Our dressing is important, if you dress up naked, men will look and believe you are not a good girl and decide to rape you sharp, sharp. Always dress decent and look good. The men won’t see you. Men, please stop opening your chest anyhow, cover up. Dressing properly won’t lead to sexual harassment too.
Rape or forcing someone to have sex is wrong, take permission from the other person, talk about sex, what do both parties want, are you both on the same page or not? It doesn’t pay to rape the women or men. Let there be a mutual understanding between the two people. Men and women, let’s do the right thing and don’t fall into trouble. This is a time to pray to God, so that we don’t miss it all. God will help us and see us through. He is the only one who can protect us from such evil, falling into the wrong arms of people. We should flee from all appearances of the devil. Thank you Jesus.
I hope our topic for today has touched you. God bless us all, Amen.
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